we are all born mad. some remain so.

ok. wearily, taking a pseudo-omniscient view, im writing this again.

(a) issit really true that men and women really differ alot from each other? this is wad it has been since time immemorial. and this is so cos its been shaped by our society. girls play wif barbie dolls and boys wif fighter planes. this in turn, develops the feminism and masculinity respectively. now. imagine a senario where there is reversal of roles. boys play wif barbies and girls wif bombers. will that result in the development of what we call in our society, "butches" and "'gays"? so that will be the society norm? then why do we reject butches and gays in OUR society? issit when man cannot accept what is deemed as "not supposed to be" that they start to condemn? assuming my concept is correct, we can apply this to other subject matters.

(b) e.g.school. we learn facts and figures, and accept the things we learn to be "correct". but what is "wrong"? we assume them to be the things that are not "correct". we cannot draw on the tables and walls. cos its graffiti. moniters are correct in reporting our names for talking in class. cos we're not supposed to talk when the teachers are not in class. but we cannot talk either when the teacher is in class. so there's practically NO time when we can talk. we take a different angle.
according to my teacher, a vocal expert, man haf been born using their diaphragm to spake but due to supression in school where we spent most of our time in, we resort to whispering. and some people actually go through classes to regain the usage of using diaphragm to speak. but that's besides the point. what i wanted to point out is that we stop voicing our opinions by stop talking and expressing our emotions by drawing, and we only do so if only it is "correct", cos that's wat the moniters did and they were given credit.

(c) when we reach the age of 12-18, we experience wad the experts say, a normal phase called the adolescence. but wad REALLY caused this? its the society norm. b4 we say anything, we go through a thinking process.
1."is what i want to say 'correct'?"
IF no
then
2."don't say it."
this is what everyone in this age group experience. so they get together and hang out (for guys) and bitch about (for girls). wanting freedom, looking for a way to express our emotions, misguided, some do wrong.
so once again, we're condemned. and why? look at (b) and then (a).

(d) when we grow up, we will definitely see much more problems. ive yet to experience it. and i dread to do so. and do yu know why? cos the problem of money comes in. and the problems get more complicated. so hence ive come up wif this equation:

(a) + (b) + (c) + (d) + $ = shit.

why do we make ourselves miserable? why do we make ourselves suffer? why?